What happens to the man after the honeymoon is over? All to often you here women saying that something is missing in there marriage. What do you think they mean by that? They are talking about the passion and romance, the very thing that won there hart over in the beginning of there relationship. Men know how to love in only one way. That is this. Men put all there efforts into winning over the girl of there dreams. Pulling out all the stops to show there dream girl that they are the one that will fulfill all there dreams. And have every intention of doing just that. As the man strives forwarded in life to provide what he fills is everything that his dream girl wants. Everything that he promised he would do for this woman. That he worked so hard to make fall in love with him. He losses himself and losses sight of what his woman needs. Men dont stop loving there wife they just forget that there wife is a very emotional being. Thats requires reassurance that they are still the woman of there mans dreams. With the hassle and Basle of todays world thats not hard to do. Believe me the man fills the guilt of not paying attention to there wifes needs. Every day they think about what they need to start doing to show there woman that they are still that woman they fell in love with, and worked so hard to make fall in love with him. But by the time the man gets home that quilt takes a back set to just wanting to relax and unwind. There is a big difference between feeling guilty and acting on that feeling of quilt. That woman still feels that neglect and still needs that reassurance. You have to do what ever it takes to give them that reassurance. It will be the most important part of your relationship. Maybe you just fill inept or the inability to perform in the way your woman deserves. Or the way that you feel your woman deserve. Maybe your mind is so full of the crap of that day. That you just cant muster up the energy to provide this emotional stability your wife needs. What ever the reasons are men you had better get over it. Because that woman you worked so effortlessly hard at winning her hart needs that emotional make over as often as possible. |